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Apr 19 '06

10:29 PM

Abortion

 

 

Abortion Increases the Risk of:

  • breast cancer
  • cervical cancer
  • tubal pregnancy
  • miscarriages
  • premature birth
  • chance of sterility
  • incidence of depression
  • incidence of suicide  More here

That is the physical part of abortion

What about the spiritual part?
 
How does it feel after having an abortion....Not to long ago a young woman close to me lost her baby, however it was not an abortion she had a miscarriage.. it was a sad moment not only for her but all the women at the work centre.. I felt the pain she was undergoing....when she came back to work she shared her experience with us.. it is a terrible feeling, she has the moments of constant crying, when she see  women with their babies or even pregnant she feel as if her heart is in her tummy...she feel a piercing in her stomach and she is constantly swallowing  uncontrollable....she is back to work but we ensure she don't do anything....until she is much stronger....
 
I have spoken to women that had Abortion, most time they ponder a lot about the decision of doing that.... most time it is about the "father" the other major problem is money and third is the time and attention in caring for these babies.
 
I have no problem with that myself because I will do the same, if I too am faced with this especially if am pretty young and cannot even take care of myself...What is disturbing about these women that have abortion is the  deep spiritual connection with their unborn babies that stay with them forever...as if the child was/is born and alive, once a woman have a child growing in her she always think about that child don't matter what happened thereafter.. a child is a child, a mother is always a mother and a woman is a woman ....They often talk about feeling the child as if he or she is with them, some women also dream about their babies and the growing years these children would have...If years pass and they have kids and start a family they always count that child as well, they keep this memory not in the mind but in the heart, and believe it or not this child stays with them...sometimes even closer than the kids that they have after ..I once was told by a dear friend of mine that she felt her baby that died suckling her breast, at first i thought she was just having serious depression.. until there were other women that had the very same experience......
 
A soul is a soul....I understand also the hardship in making these decision and the choices that is forced most time upon our women,  in our society today a lot of our young women go through this in silent...I must give our women credit also for the courage in standing and facing not only of these type of decision making but for all the other things women go through in society.....especially the very painful part of our monthy cycle....
 
Sparkle quote:
I rather eat lots of ice cream and be comforted rather than bore a child into this chaotic state that our world is today....

Sparkle Tricky English

Any word(s) is a message yet in another term it is called a sentence.

7 Love.

Posted by Roger The Okcitykid:

Excellent Arcticle - If society tried real hard they could prevent almost all unwanted pregnancies and solve this abortion problem but making these young women who have abortions a criminal is not the answer, teaching young men about the results of their actions and teach birth control not just abstanance and make the day after pill available to all might go along way twords this. A small group of self righteous fundamentalists wants all who have sex outside of marriage to be punished one way or another, that is their true intent in taking away birth and its education, teaching abstinance only and making those who get abortions criminals. But should they succeed in this, I think the man and the women should be held accountable for this, not just the woman.
Apr 20 '06 @ 1:27 PM

Posted by Sparkle:

Well said roger, I appauled your thoughts, I am seeing the numerous breakdown in society today because of religion and marriage, children today need to be educated, and as i always say PARENTs plays a very very important part in our changeing world today it is a next generation we are breeding and this generation needs caring and attention and most of all educated, there should be no hiding from them, a parent should be a child best friend.... I msyelf have a son, and i talk him about relationship, we spend time as a family around the table and discuss life and even share my experience with them even my husband also share his knowledge...I told my son i will not tolerate him being abusive to his girlfriend he must treat her with respect, I will not want someone daughter being hurt in a relationship for i myself have a daughter..parents plays everything in a child growing years from spirit to matter....
Apr 20 '06 @ 4:32 PM

Posted by Lucky_star:

Sex outside of marriage has always been and always will be that is the nature of us humans.Especially the young and innocent who are carried away by their emotions without thought. Our modern way of life, the media etc does not help matters either. The consequences we as adults know, can be devastating and punishment will not solve the problems. We need to go back to old values ,teaching that intercourse between 2 loving people who commit to each other is the way, not a quickie in the club ally with someone you hardly know. Ignorence is not bliss and i agree with both of you...well said!!
Apr 21 '06 @ 10:14 AM

Posted by Lucky_star:

Unfortunatley it's not just the young that have abortions and there are many reasons why women decide to terminate but i think this is one of the biggest decisions that a woman has to make and one, as you say. Sparkle, that they will live with for the rest of their lives. I know of a few cases wher women have had an abortion and later on they have given birth to a child that is old beyond their years and has given them grief, I often wonder if that is the soul of the aborted child who is trying to catch up with what they lost at that time.............only a thought.
Apr 21 '06 @ 10:18 AM

Posted by Sparkle:

Oh yes, all things happen through a single thought then manifest itself to act in a reality suited to it's energy, thoughts are who I am as in another word for *soul frequency* and yes it is possible for an aborted soul to re enter the same womb whence it first came, it is what i call a soul with a specific mission that will change a reality, it can enter 2 times or even 3 times with the said mother, when this happens it is respect to the energy that this soul enters to, as the mother through her choice that is justified reason to have abort that soul comes back again when that mother is ready to connect to this energy and continue the birthing process, abort is a correct term in regard to spiritual exit, as nothing really dies only enters and exit
Apr 21 '06 @ 10:54 AM

Posted by *fallen angel*:

Sparkle,
You've written about a sensitive subject with compassion and sensitivity. I've always felt that better birth control education could help prevent a lot of abortions but it's not always that simple.
Something that wasn't mentioned is the fact that some women have to have an abortion to save their own life because of extreme complications during pregnancy. This is another heart-breaking decision some women have to make (along with some women who've been raped) and although it may be necessary, it's not any less painful.
Thanks again for writing this. :)
Apr 24 '06 @ 5:49 PM

Posted by Sparkle:

Greetings fallen angel, your article regarding "I" and "we" really touched me and i felt a sence of fresh air again, very seldom the universe and connnectedness is talked about and the connection to all humans as a whole, thanks also for writing that article Yes it is a very sensitive subject and it goes very deep... words cannot express this feeling the individual is going through, as you mention rape.. my mind went on my daughter.. deep feelings as how myself will feel and react if this happens to her,..it is also traumatizing for the mother of the daughter...so that is a decision no one will want to ever have to go through as you have to also think of the unborn child..at the same time your daughter and her growing-future years...Regarding the choice the mother or child.. i have known cases where mothers and fathers make the decision to have the child and take the chance to let the mother go...most time in today advance world the mother and child survive.. however where the mother has to make a decision either her or the child, most time the doctor required that you save yourself....maybe some day.. just some day..a life will come into the world only when love and light blooms(balance)... meaning...it will come when it is totally accepted and not under any of the above circumstances .. then maybe.. we all shall have a peaceful mind*
Apr 24 '06 @ 7:27 PM

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